No One Is Coming To Save You And That Is Your Salvation

Why look back? No one is coming to save you. Not your parents, best friends, or significant other.  No matter how bad things get, they will not be able to help you. I have told many people that I would be there with them through their tough times.  In reality, I couldn't help them.  It's just …

Be Afraid And You Will Succeed In Life.

  I do not believe in fear. Early in my former career, I learned that fear was indeed self-induced and was and it kept me from achieving many of my goals in life.  See fear stops you from achieving your highest potential. It creates self-doubt and worries in the best of people. But it's preventable. It …

Whatever You Do Don’t Quit. 

There have been some times in my military, hell life in general, that I had wanted to quit. Give up. Walk away. Ring that damn bell. But then I came to the realization that some things are worth the pain and sacrifice if I really wanted them. We used to say to "take a knee …

We Don’t Control A Lot, But These Three Things We Do

Early last week I did an interview for a podcast called The Creative Soul Lab hosted by a wonderful woman named Shari D. Teigman. I first met her online in a Facebook group  for online creatives. We hit it off quickly and she has a great spirit  about her. The first conversation we had, she asked …