It’s so much easier in life to be average. To not rock the boat and to toe the line. It’s so much easier falling into a routine with everyone else. Falling into the norm. Doing exactly what your parents, not you, want you to be in life.
Yea, ok. No. I have always been someone who wanted and did the opposite of others. I didn’t follow the crowd in school. I never really had a ton of friends. Just like-minded people on the fringes like me who always did their own thing. Sure, there were times where I wanted to be popular. But that quickly subsided when I figured that high school was very temporary and we actually had to be something productive in life afterward.
I knew early on that I was destined to be something bigger than just another kid graduating and joining the workforce. I joined the military knowing I wanted to be the best Logistician and Soldier I could be. Sometimes I fell short and others I excelled, having retired after 23 successful years. During that time I fell into depression and grew very pessimistic. But one thing that kept me going was that phrase: I Dare You To Be Great. I often told myself this. I dare you to do good on this promotion board. I dare you to do your absolute best on this deployment day in and day out. I dare you to give your best leading these soldiers. Every single day that was my mission: to be great just that one single day. Like I said, some days I was great and some days I fell short. But I always dared myself and gave the best I could.
It’s something that all of us can do. It’s not a gift given to the rich, privileged, or gifted. Each one of us has the “greatness gene” dormant inside of us. Each one of us has the willpower to be everything we imagined. We just need to follow these simple steps:
Believe in Yourself
Set Your Goals
Accept and Take Action
Acknowledge and Repeat
In the coming weeks, I will be elaborating more on these four principles in a new way titled the Becoming Better Project. My goal is to assist one hundred people in realizing their fullest potential. The plan will be to build a community of people from all walks of life who just want to become better. And it’s free. All I want is your time and commitment to want the best for you and others on the same path.
Will you commit? Drop me a comment below or send me an email with Becoming Better in the subject line letting me know you want to be apart of this.